I tried and tried and tried to put together an outfit with that Christopher John Rogers shirt to remember my mom at my daughter’s casual welcome party. I failed. I moved on quickly, and she would approve. Here’s the new plan. I have bought this Eileen Fisher shirt and pants already; with my long torso that top sits a little higher and hangs somewhat attractively away from my body; make sure you really want to tell me it’s bad before you comment; I may be a tad fragile at the moment; a photo of the full look will follow.
I promise.
I’m thinking high ponytail, vivid lip, gold dangly earrings or maybe diamonds, with either a necklace or a bracelet, and, miracles of miracles, shoes I already own.
Maybe these Gucci flats, or maybe the platform cork sandals I got for my trip to Houston. The flats feel more age appropriate, but should that ever stop us? Diamond earrings and a pearl and diamond bracelet mitigate a myriad of sins.
Thank you for all the reminders on my last post that all will be well. I am only hoping (having at 5am this morning figured out a solution I think will work for our troublesome logistics), that learning how to think about issues of objects in actual space is as good for my brain as ballroom dancing. I do not want to learn the Paso Doble, but I would like my daughter and her fiancé to be well-celebrated.
Have a wonderful weekend everyone!
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Love the vibrant color and the dressy/casual dichotomy.
I thought of that necklace you had made, with gems from unworn jewelry. I looked, and saw the center features a turquoise colored stone. Don’t know how that would lie in the neckline, but I like the idea of it!
7 years ago, both of my children were married, four months apart. All of that while my Mom was in the scary descent into a fast moving dementia.
Now I find that amidst it all, I made too few real memories of those beautiful and joyous weddings.
I hope that you can pause, and make real memories during all of the events to come. Just a moment here and there to soak in the beauty, the perfect bite, some special words, just the right song to dance to.
So many things. First, the Eileen Fisher is Perfect, may I say Fabulous. Sorry to gush: Sensational! Ahh: Done.
You did not “fail.” Your centrifuge was simply sifting and sorting, and took its time delivering its verdict. Done.
Do I recall you gave us a complete schedule some time ago, saying you’d volunteered to do the floral centerpieces for all the dinner tables? That you’d make them at your house [yourself!], deliver them to the venue the night before [imagine!], then….I forgot the rest, but these synchronized steps must be the logistics you’re talking about. Your centrifuge, again, taking its time until 5 am this morning. Done.
You really carry a heavy realm-of-the-unknown responsibility on your shoulders. You’ve confessed that Sturdy gals may enjoy moments of Fragile from time to time. Think of it as a downtime tuneup for your overworked centrifuge.
I am absolutely positive that all you’re missing in the planning stages is the electric presence of your daughter and her Groom, and the effect of their radiance and joy, reflected in the faces of all the guests. Even though you can’t see it yet, count on it because I know it’s true. Done!
Perfect choice! Enjoy your daughter’s wedding, it’s both MOMentous and joyous. Give her and her new husband a beautiful sendoff into their new life, and savour all the moments of joy, but it’s normal to also have some twinges of ….je ne sais quoi…it also marks a new chapter in your own life.
The turquoise outfit is perfect for a casual welcome party! I love the festive color and unique shape of the top. Either pair of shoes would be lovely — maybe the flats lean a little more toward “casual” and the wedges lean more toward “dressy.” Either way, you’ll look beautiful. And I’m sure everyone will have a wonderful time celebrating, including you!
Happy weekend and an extra-big hug for you. All will be well! ❤
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I LOVE the outfit! I think the Gucci’s aren’t right for it. I do like the nude platforms, and I think they’d be fun and leg lengthening (who doesn’t want that). I also love the shoes I linked, which are fun, festive and “intentional”.
Love the high ponytail and earrings and a bracelet (not sure the neckline is right for a necklace) – now what color vivid lip???
The turquoise outfit is okay but the cjr shirt is marvelous, if you can find the right pants. I’d try a pale grey, narrow jean. Nice to have the turquoise as a perfectly good plan b in case you don’t find pants that are wonderful.
I love all of these comments— and the supportive warmth of the community that my sister had built through her brilliance, creativity, and commitment she brings to us all.
Xox
Your sister is divine. You’re fortunate to have each other as siblings and friends. She has superb taste, a kind heart, and a wicked sense of humor. Look forward to Saturdays! Always interesting and fun.
Hope you all have a wonderful time at the wedding!
Love the turquoise. The cropped top is so very flattering and the pants are the perfect cut. I think the colorful loafer slip ons are nice, but the nude platforms with a great pedicure would be just right. Your jewelry choices are always perfect!
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Here is the link to the shoes I mentioned. I love them, fun, beachy, and they look intentional.
Cute shoes! Would look nice or the platform sandals
A vibrant, happy outfit — it looks like you. Enjoy!
Forgot to mention – love the outfit. Very flattering with Lisa’s skin tones, hair, and eyes. Plus a perfect casual for this event.
You’ll look great in the turquoise outfit – excellent choice. Your thoughts on hair and accessories also sound perfect. I just remembered that you gave me advice about what to wear for our son’s wedding rehearsal dinner – a long time ago now – and not only was your advice perfect, but it brings tears to my eyes to recall it. As Lisa H and Flo suggest, the happiness of your daughter, the groom, and the guests – and you – will light up everything, so be sure to soak it all in.
Really perfect outfit, and you will be comfortable and feel beautiful and relaxed. I love the casual jewelry consideringg (“or maybe diamonds…”).
Ceci