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Pushing Limits In The Approach To 70, Or, Saturday Morning at 9:00am

I just returned from camping, with my sister, for three nights in the High Sierra. We are both in our later 60s.

It was just car camping, tents, cooking over a fire, a little propane stove, and so on. No real backpacking. But the High Sierra is high; at 7500 feet oxygen is a tiniest bit harder to come by, the sun, intense. Never mind the possibility of bears. Gotta put all the food and any scented toiletries in the special bear locker any time you leave the campsite or go to sleep. That’s a lot of carrying bins from here to there.

The High Sierra is also extraordinarily, or maybe ordinarily if we weren’t so civilized, beautiful. And thus, inspiring? Is that the right word?

Specifics include silver tip firs, fallen and standing, wildflowers, granite, and clear, clear water.

There are teeny white and pink flowers hidden in this greenery, and often small orange butterflies flit about. I think Western Meadow Fritillaries but they rarely stayed still enough to identify.

We thought better of hiking to the very top of Inspiration Point. I was testing my limits, and the risks of over-extending here seemed high.

Lake Alpine, in the Stanislaus National Forest. We swam directly from the granite. Pretty (read: wildly) awesome.

Don’t forget your chairs. To rest, to gaze out across trees and mountains, and talk about how this time we are going to remember to buy a tablecloth that isn’t too small for the park picnic tables.

Two portable lounge chairs, set up on a campsite in the High Sierra

The trip was hard work. And also fantastic. It’s good to bump up against your limits, and then maybe find a way to push them just a little further out. Have a wonderful weekend everyone.

My Pollinator Garden 10 Years Later, Or, Saturday Morning at 9:47am

Back in 2016 I planted this small side yard, I had a vision; it would be neat and small but butterflies would come and so they did. Last week a Swallowtail, a Monarch, a Mourning Cloak, a Red Admiral all annoyed the Gulf Fritillaries that live here along with various Skippers. Delighted me. I have no photos as none stayed put in time to raise my phone. Neat and small, though, not so much. Today. I have surrendered architecture to details. Also bugs, plus the occasional hummingbird. Details. Vervain, a weed my Plant It app tells me is wild hedge

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What’s That Thing Again, Aging, Is That It, Or, Saturday Morning at 10;10am

It’s about my feet. I don’t object to aging; I am fascinated by the process. But my feet are unhappy more often than I’d like. What to do? As I said to a friend, “I can’t go to the doctor because my feet hurt. That’s too silly.” No disease applies. What to do? If I net out my reaction to this physical experience of aging, altogether, it’s very similar to how I felt with a newborn. What books should I read? Where is the conceptual model? Can I go to graduate school and get an MPA? A masters in personal

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“Logos” Means, Apparently, “Word, Discourse and Reason,” or, Saturday Morning at 8:15am

Let’s take a college exam. Is it acceptable to buy something dominated by a prominent logo? Why or why not? Please define “acceptable,” and be sure to include brief historical context, both personal and societal. Booklets open; blue pens in hand. Recently I bought this bag, excited for my daughter’s wedding. Back in 2009, when I anonymously began writing here, I admitted to having bought a Louis Vuitton Monogram Vernis tote. I have since given it away. It wasn’t particularly comfortable to carry. This post dripped with High WASP mortification. As I wrote, High WASPs did not show off, as

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