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Big Over Big In Heat, Or, Saturday Morning at 8:33am

I was asked if the BoB strategy (Big Over Big) survives heat. While California’s weather usually allows us to extend spring clothes well into summer, throwing on linen dresses in a semi-panic when temperatures rise above 85F, I do think we could find some outfits that address the question as posed.

Key tenets:

  • a cotton-silk blend, or a cotton gauze shirt, are your coolest options. Linen should be good, but in shirts I often find it heavy
  • pants should be loose and pull on. no closure is final in the summertime
  • as always, you can carry anything off if you look like you mean it

The simplest BoB version here is a “set,” as matching top and bottom are called now. From Vince.

Imagine of a woman in black and white striped shirt and pants

However, these are a passport for pajamaland, which I don’t enjoy unless I can see the cerulean sea over my left shoulder. So, Florida? At a guess yes. The SF Bay Area, I’m suspicious.

All is not lost. One can urbanize stripes. For example. Notice no raffia resort sandals, no hoop earrings. Patent leather makes anything floaty just a tad tougher. And I’d want to carry the J.W. Anderson loafer bag which is my new obsession and which I do not own.


Collage of an outfit featuring shirt with burnt yellow and white stripes, white cotton jacquard pants, black Birkenstocks and blue turquoise studs.
Alternatively, all in for color. With such informal baggy denim, I’d want to wear cool shoes (with denim raffia is not too resort) and a not-quite-classic gold stud. Maybe thistles. Simple. Someone would have to look closely to get it, whatever “it” is.

Given the preppy vibes haunting this shirt, I’d probably want even cooler shoes, but I live in a suburb where “cool” is perplexing.

Below are raw links. These are monetized, as a farewell wave to the platform I used to used for Style Blogging, Shopstyle. Enjoy your retirement, old friend, or as we said in software in the dinosaur age, your deprecation. My image downloading and Photoshop skills have evidently retired already.

Everyone else? Have a good weekend. Maybe enjoy the privilege of ignoring the world. For one day. Or two.

Lightning earrings: https://shopstyle.it/l/cyfLu
Raffia ankle strap sandals: https://shopstyle.it/l/cyfMa
GAP denim: https://shopstyle.it/l/cyfMb
Green silk and cotton poplin shirt: https://shopstyle.it/l/cyfLF
Turquoise studs: https://shopstyle.it/l/cyfLE
Sand and white-striped silk and cotton blend shirt: https://shopstyle.it/l/cyfLG
White cotton jacquard cotton pants: https://shopstyle.it/l/cyfMc
Black patent Birkenstocks https://shopstyle.it/l/cyfMd 

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